You can’t heal stubbornness
~ Polish Proverb
Does this proverb reflect something about the Polish culture itself, or might it have a wider resonance in our daily lives?
We might be stubborn about matters that are important to us, because we want to be on the winning side of an argument, that is not to say that we are fixated on winning for the sake of winning, but more so that we feel reassured that others think similarly to us). If so, then this might reflect some feelings of inferiority in our inner self.
Perhaps it might also be we are concrete thinkers about right and wrong?
On the other hand, could fighting for what you believe is right, be considered by some as also being stubborn, but in a positive sense?
There is a big empasis on working collaboratively these days, especially in the workplace. The following quote seems to confirm that approach. however, where does that leave the individual prodigy? Like the Flying fox – out on a limb?
It is one of the most beautiful compensations of life that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
Shall we aim to help each other more!
Then there is this quote from Wolfgang von Goethe:
Some consider Wolfgang von Goethe’s quote, to be validation for positive criticism of a person or their ability. If you believe someone to be more capable than they outwardly demonstrate, can having another source, push you to lift your standards? Does it allow the person to see themselves from a different perspective?
I find there to be profound wisdom in proverbs, sayings and quotes and I marvel at the way they are so succinct in communicating messages to the reader.
Mostly anonymous, they come to us from past generations and from across cultures. They speak of the experiences of lives lived and lessons learned.
Quotes, like proverbs, make us think more deeply about something.
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