“Insignificant damage accumulates.”
Strauss, Emmanuel (1994). Dictionary of European Proverbs, Volym 1. Routledge.
“It is the set of the sails, not the direction of the wind that determines which way we will go.”Jim Rohn
I read this somewhere: Sometimes you have to walk away from people, not because you don’t care, but because they don’t.
When someone repeatedly hurts you over and over again, you might have to accept the fact that they don’t really care about you.
That is hard to contemplate or hear, especially if you really care about them but sometimes it is necessary for you to hear this in order for you to let them go.
Do NOT strive to impress them any further. Waste not another second of your time trying to prove something to them. Nothing needs to be proven. Do not act with any thought of them ever again.
Give yourself permission to let those folk go from your life……
A sobering thought for Sunday Sayings.
Several years ago, I created ‘Proverbial Friday’ on my blog.
I became fascinated with traditional proverbs and sayings, their metaphorical layers and the many different interpretations found within just a few, succinct words. I marveled at their ability to transcend race, religion, opinions and age.
They offer us knowledge; knowledge that is passed to us in much the same way relay runners might pass a baton. Once it’s handed over, it is up to us what we do with it and how we pass it on.